ARE YOU WORRIED YOUR FRIEND MAY HAVE ANOREXIA NERVOSA

You have noticed some symptoms of anorexia nervosa in your friend and co-worker. She says she skips breakfast because there isn't enough time. When you take a lunch break together, she just pushes the food around her plate but doesn't seem to eat anything. She is constantly trying the latest diet, but she is too skinny already. Indeed these are some of the symptoms of anorexia nervosa.

Anorexia Nervosa is an eating disorder. An anorexic uses food, or rather not eating food, to feel in control and to ease anxiety, stress and anger. Most people with anorexia nervosa are female. There is no single cause for anorexia nervosa. Factors may include: life changes or stressful events, genetics, chemical imbalances in the brain, societal pressures, and family lifestyle (i.e. parents or older siblings are often dieting).

So what can you so for your friend? You must talk to her; anorexia nervosa can be life threatening if left untreated. Make your conversation private and be sure it is in a comfortable setting. Be honest; tell your friend of the symptoms you have noticed and express your concerns for her health. Do not be judgmental or use scare tactics. Do not place guilt or shame on your friend but do not understate the problem (i.e. you just need to eat more and you'll be fine.) Ask your friend to seek help from a health care professional. Even offer to accompany her to her first visit. If your friend resists, do not push the issue for now. Let her know that you care and you are always there if she needs you. If the situation progresses consult a faily member of your friend to be sure they are aware of the situation.

Anorexia nervosa is a difficult disease to watch. It is even more difficult to live. You are a good friend for caring.